Answers #001
Q. Should I do an engagement shoot?
A. Always do the engagement shoot.
Think engagement photos are unnecessary? Think again. Here’s why they’re worth it:
Practice Makes Perfect — You’ll get comfortable in front of the camera before the big day. Unless you are an influencer, most people do not know how to pose with their significant other and it helps to find your best angles.
Learn About Your Photographer — See how they direct you and if you like their style. You might want more or less communication on your wedding day in order to get the best results.
Use the Photos — For save-the-dates, wedding websites, or even decor at the reception.
Photos by Rachel FosbennerQ. Which is better for dinner, long tables or round tables?
A. When it comes to reception seating, I’m team long tables all the way. Here’s why:
Better Tablescapes — Long tables allow for layered designs with florals and candles running the length of the table. Round tables make this harder to achieve.
More Aesthetic, Less Ballroom-Like — Round tables can feel overly formal, while long tables create a modern, intimate, and elegant look.
Space Efficiency — Long tables can be arranged creatively, like serpentine layouts or banquet-style seating, making them great for maximizing space.
For a stylish, dynamic reception, long tables are the way to go.
Photos by Raya Carlisle, Max Wanger, Olivia Rae JamesQ. What should I do for the day after brunch?
A. Skip the Post-Wedding Brunch.
A post-wedding brunch sounds nice in theory, but in reality, it’s often unnecessary stress and expense.
Travel Plans Vary — Guests leave at different times, making attendance unpredictable.
Hard to Plan — You’ll need a flexible venue, but RSVPs usually come in too late.
Early Mornings — After an exhausting wedding day, you might not want to wake up early and host again.
Instead, keep it casual. Sleep in, send a group text, and let whoever is around drop by for a relaxed, no-pressure meetup.
Photo by Olivia Rae JamesQ. Should you do a first look?
A. The First Look is Worth It
A first look doesn’t take away from the magic of the aisle moment—it actually doubles it.
Two Special Moments Instead of One
1. A private, emotional moment together—just the two of you. You can hug, cry, exchange letters, and soak it all in.
2. A second, equally powerful moment when you walk down the aisle, now with the soaring music and all your guests witnessing it.
Timing Perks
You’ll get more time for portraits, meaning less stress and more time enjoying your wedding.
Avoid missing cocktail hour or getting pulled from dinner for extra photos.
Sunset photos can be a quick five-minute session instead of a rushed 20-minute break.
Photos by Annie Mcelwain and Kenzie Victory